The adventures of Frankie and Sammy

The adventures of Frankie and Sammy
FrankieandSammy

Saturday, July 28, 2012

Freedom of Speech works both way



*Disclaimer, the following blog post has second hand information obtained by unverified internet sources. If any “facts” written her are incorrect, please point it out to me (politely, if you please?). Thanks.*

This particular blog post is not actually related to my life as a SAHM or housewife nor is it related to my family’s day to day life. But this is my blog and I can rant when I want to.

I have always been a rather outspoken individual (that is the nicest way to describe it, I am sure there are others who have less flattering ways to name my personality). For many years I let everyone and anyone know what my political beliefs were. Now, I am not ashamed of what I believe and I never will be but I have had gone quiet on my beliefs mostly because I am tired of defending my right to believe what I want. 

With that said, I am breaking my silence because I have something that I feel needs to be said.
Freedom of Speech works both ways. 

I feel that I have a somewhat unique view of social issues. I don’t really consider myself a social conservative nor am I social liberal. I believe there are compromises that will satisfy most parties but there are radicals on both sides who believe in all or nothing. I believe that compromise is the one of the most important parts of life.

But regardless of where you stand on any issue you have a right to express yourself. The inspiration for this, the Chik fil a issue. 

I will start by saying I am not really sure why Dan Cathy feels the need to be so very vocal about his views on gay rights. As inferred from my above statements I don’t believe anyone should be ashamed of what they believe or try to hide it but I do not understand what his views have to do with his business. I find it slightly irresponsible for a business man to blur the lines between personal. One the flip side? Based on what I have read there is a difference between what they believe (and fund) and how they treat their customers. There is no actual discrimination against any customers going on (if there is I would be interested in hearing about that). 

What am I trying to say? Is Dan Cathy not allowed his own beliefs? Is Dan Cathy not allowed to decide what groups his company will or will not fund? Just because he is in a relatively high profile situation does that negate his personal rights that are guaranteed to us all? And before anyone says anything I fully believe people have the right to boycott Chik fil a. I don’t like their chicken so I never go there anyway. I don’t care.

To me the biggest issue here isn’t about gay rights or boycotting. For the Mayor of Boston to actually suggest that a place of business is not welcome in his city because of the business’s point of view on a social issue he does not agree with? Wow, that is beyond irresponsible and downright juvenile. He is a political leader and should act like one. That is intolerance in and of itself, right? Just saying.
I am not sure if my little rant her made any sense. That is just my point of view.

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Broken bones update

So, went back to the ortho doctor today. She X-rayed (sp?) my foot and ankle again. She said my left foot (5th metatarsal fracture) is almost healed, Yay!!! But they discovered a second fractured in my ankle. I am looking at being off my feet another 4-6 weeks (minimum). They replaced the splint on my right leg with a fiberglass cast. They let me choose a color and what did I choose? Can you guess? You could if you knew me at all. PINK. Yay me. I am very happy about being in a cast but at least it is pretty.

Now, we are working on getting me a wheelchair so I can actually leave the house for something other than a doctors visit.


Friday, July 6, 2012

Sticks and Stones may break my bones...


…and so will falling down stairs, just for the record.

So, last week I was multitasking and I fell down the stairs. I called my hubby who rushed home and ushered me and my toddlers to the Emergency room. There was a nice bunch of girls in the Emergency room who were nice and able to make me laugh which helped distract me from the pain. Long story short, I was diagnosed with a left metatarsal fracture (foot) and right distal medial malleolus fracture (ankle). I was given a boot for my left foot and a splint for the right and sent home with a referral to an orthopedic doctor and pain meds.

Then the fun really started.